Karen Pajarillaga
- EPCALM
- Oct 31, 2010
- 10 min read
Updated: Jun 5
Karen Flores Pajarillaga (one on the left), 33, has been diagnosed with ALL (acute lymphoblastic leukemia) last March/April 2010. At that time she worked at Imperial Palace hotel in Cebu as an assistant sales manager. She was happy with her work and has been working in Cebu for 5-6 years.
Everything was quite ok and she came home to Paranaque, Philippines about thrice a year. Last April, though, when she went home, her family noticed that she lost weight. She then confided to them the initial findings about leukemia. She said that it all started towards the last part of Feb 2010 after donating blood at Red Cross when she began to feel weak a few days after. She then went to see a doctor and got confined in the hospital. She had a blood transfusion around March at Chong Hua hospital. She also had bone marrow aspiration which served as basis for the ALL finding. All that time she kept it to heself. When she went home last April she looked pale, felt weak and had fever. That same day we went to the ER at Las Pinas Doctors hospital. She stayed there for 4 days and was later on discharged with a plan to have her transferred to UERM where their aunt works as a medical technologist at the bloodbank.
Last week of April she was transferred to UERM. They were all confused and did not know what to expect. It was good to know that all of her family members were giving all the help that they could offer from blood donations as well as finding donors to providing financial assistance for all the important things that Karen needed like paying for the chemo drugs and etc. There were also times that they had problems with finding her blood type because she was a B positive. It was all good, though, because her condition improved.
First she stayed for a month for her chemo. She was confined for treatment (chemo) for about 4-5 weeks straight after which she would be allowed to go home for about 1-2 weeks. That cycle went on until September when she stayed home for about 3 weeks. We all thought she was doing ok. The doctor even mentioned she was progressing well. She was scheduled to get readmitted last Oct 4 for another round of treatment. About two days before she complained of severe headache and and facial paralysis. She got readmitted to UERM last Oct 3. This time the doctor mentioned BMT as the potential last resort.
We’re asking everyone who’s reading this for any support and social service so that we could afford the procedure. More pictures of Karen are below.
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“EPCALM For Karen” Video
A new “EPCALM For Karen” video is posted in the Vimeo website. See the highlights of the event in said video as captured through the lens of EPCALM volunteer Michael Benetua.
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Showers of Blessings on “EPCALM For Karen”
……Thank you for teaching us the value of sharing. For this we are deeply thankful….”
Rain and traffic on December 30, 2010 did not dampen the spirits of EPCALM supporters, volunteers, friends and residents of the BF Homes Executive Village Association (BF HEVA) in Paranaque city to take part in the EPCALM for LIFE, EPCALM for KAREN community fund raising project for the benefit of Karen Pajarillaga, a resident of BF HEVA diagnosed to have leukemia. The Pajarillaga family were hands-on in the preparation for this first ever community fund raising event conducted by the EPCALM Adult Leukemia Foundation of the Philippines, Inc., specifically for the benefit of Karen. EPCALM has three arms of service namely: Spiritual; Medical; and Financial.
The concept of fund raising drives by EPCALM’s financial arm for patients’ needs is geared towards community awareness and involvement by bringing back the Bayanihan Spirit that the Filipinos are known for. The idea is to empower the family and the community where they belong, to be aware that there is someone in the community afflicted with the disease and that there is a way by which everyone can help. It is a chance to share and a golden opportunity to help the afflicted. Most of all, this will be a rare privilege to see the outpouring of Christian generosity and love in accordance with God’s grace. The event started with a prayer led by Pastor Norma Manuel, EPCALM’s outreach director.
This was followed by an opening song by the Dumogho family and friends representing the National City United Church (NCUC) that set the place in solemnity before God with their acappella rendition of “We have come to worship Thee” and “Empower Me”.
After which, Dr. Erlyn P. Cabanag-Demerre, founder and chairman of the Board of EPCALM, welcomed everyone and gave an overview of the foundation as well as the purpose of the event. Dr. Demerre explained the mission and vision of EPCALM as embodied in its logo where the healthy, with the empowering of the Holy Spirit could help lift the afflicted from the mire of disease.
The words of the song “Empower Me” as sang by the Dumogho singers, “Empower me like the rushing river flowing to the sea. Send your Holy Spirit flowing now through me… Send the power of your love empower me” inspired the listeners as Dr. Demerre, herself empowered, stressed that there is no big or small task, all that is needed is for everyone to respond with compassion to those in need and to open their hearts and minds so as to allow God to move and use each individual according to God’s specified purpose. “…We who are healthy should thank the Lord for our health and freely share to help those who are not as healthy as we are. It is better to be the one in the capacity to help than to be the one helped…”.
This was followed by a challenge to everyone by EPCALM president and CEO Engr. Justice Demerre, “…God has given us different gifts as part of one body. No part or gift is less important, we can all have a role in helping EPCALM; be it a listening ear or a helping hand or through intercessory prayers, be it time spent in hospital visits or the sharing of our resources. When we share of these gifts, we are doing our part as Christians on this earth…”.
Karen had fever and was vomiting early that day hence her presence that day was not expected, yet by God’s grace she came in the middle of the event fresh and radiant that it came as a pleasant surprise to all those present. Her arrival was just in time for the final acapella rendition by the Dumogho family’s interpretation of “I am a miracle Lord”. Gina Lynn Cabanag Dumogho-Lozada, herself a testimony of God’s healing, gave Karen and the rest of the crowd encouragement saying “…As we face our trials let us not forget that God is always with us. We are His miracles…”. Karen responded in simple yet sincere words of gratitude, thanking everyone for their time and resources.
Then the EPCALM torch was lighted to signify God’s love and healing in our midst that will spread across the nation through the testimony of God’s faithfulness in the lives of the healthy and the unhealthy bonded together in love. The EPCALM torch was lighted for the first time in Polo Bais City at the Claro Cabanag Memorial Cemetery on May 12, 2010 where Atty Erwin P. Cabanag was laid to rest five years ago, to signify that Christ’s light will shine brightly as God’s grace and power over disease will be proclaimed across the nation.
During said torch lighting ceremony, Engr. Demerre proclaimed that “….EPCALM will not be confined to the Cabanag family anymore but will embrace everyone who would want to help, so that God’s love will be felt by those in need…”. He went on to confide that “….we were hesitant initially to start the foundation because we felt inadequate, but God faithfully showed us the way..… God is moving us and we cannot push back and say NO anymore….”. With that same empowering, the BF HEVA residents and guests nodded their heads in agreement and commitment that what they thought as their usual annual Bingo fund raiser turned out to be the best way to close 2010.
“….Thanks to GOD and thanks to EPCALM. We love the EPCALM foundation….”,
Mrs. Evelyn Pajarillaga, mother of Karen expressed joyfully in response to the moving presence of the Holy Spirit felt that afternoon. The crowd stayed on eager to engage in the second part of the fund raiser event which was the most awaited Bingo socials.
This was made possible by generous donors of the prizes namely: Pfizer Philippines for the Bingo cards, sandwich maker and desk fan; Therapharma for the oven toaster and electric kettle; desk fan from Corbridge and Niña Taduran; rice cooker from Natrapharm and Servier; and blender from Bell Kenz. Three other prizes were donated on the spot by classmates of Karen and some BF HEVA residents. Mr. Ramoncito Flores, Karen’s uncle was the Bingo master who ably led the crowd to form the patterns for ECPALM and KAREN on their Bingo cards. The activity’s major sponsor was the Mekeni Food Corporation that made the perfect touch to a festive day despite the rain, with their hotdogs on sticks and discounted meat products. Picnic Boy mascot lightened the tension of the intense Bingo players with his intermission dance to the tune of “Baby Lyrics”.
Ms. Marie Beth Lorenzo, EPCALM volunteer spurred the players to take a break and stand from their seats recognizing the various groups in the crowd. First to be called were the classmates of Karen since elementary and from high school. Some came from far places, making the event for Karen an instant reunion. Then Ms. Lorenzo called the housewives of BF HEVA, then the children and in unison they cheered “EPCALM for LIFE, KAREN for LIFE!”. What a moving scene. Ms. Lorenzo challenged everyone to purchase any of the items on sale for the benefit of Karen.
Donated items were fresh plants and flowers from King Louis Flowers and Plants, Inc. with office address at the Manila Seedling Bank compound, EDSA cor. Quezon Avenue; Eurobake products from Mr. and Mrs. Rico Calero; bag tags with EPCALM logo created by Mr. Valentino Asuncion; stocking candy bags handmade by Anna Orani and Edith Verde Brito; and colorful baller bands with the inscription FIGHT LEUKEMIA and the EPCALM website www.epcalm.org from Karen’s family. Other items on sale were limitless popcorn served fresh from the popcorn maker machine of Dr. Aurora Tanzo-Co, herself a cancer survivor; Oatmeal cookies baked by Mr. Tim Moore; native delicacies; mugs with EPCALM logo and Karen’s picture created by leukemia survivor (post Bone marrow transplant) and cardiologist Dr. Johnel Candava; EPCALM and Karen T-shirts that were subsidized by Rowena Macatao; EPCALM stickers from June Concepcion; and artificial flower arrangements from Gabz Party Needs. Every item on sale shouted a spirit of sharing and giving for Karen, as all the proceeds would go to Karen’s medical fund. Cash donations were given by Dr.Teresita Quirino of Technological Institute of the Philippines (TIP); Mrs. Amelia Lantin; and Virgie Garcia.
Many more joined in prayer for the event and for Karen Special thanks go to Atty. Arturo Astorga II, president of the BF HEVA for facilitating the event and allowing the use of the facilities of the clubhouse. BF HEVA Board of directors Lucille Hawke and Meg Aguila showed full support by being there to witness the event. Inspired by the community involvement for the benefit of Karen, they expressed the desire to conduct a similar fund raising for Karen in the summer months still in cooperation with EPCALM. Watch out for this!
The day ended with a prayer led by Tim Moore, EPCALM advocate and president of Moore Safety Enterprises, Seattle WA. For sure, each one left the venue not only with prizes and goodies but a heart now touched by the spirit of love.
Was it a success? When God arranges an event, what else could it be? It becomes a source of immeasurable joy that lasts and grows.
“We had several sponsors that day, who gave because Dr. Erlyn Demerre and her husband Justice give like GOD tells us to, and by their demonstration and love for patients ….. The sponsors were her patients and pharma friends who gave because of her example. Leading by example is what lights a fire; living by GOD’s commands turns the fire into an inferno….”
– TIM MOORE, scientist
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EPCALM For Karen Slideshow
Community Fund Raiser for Leukemia Patient Karen Pajarillaga, held at the BF Homes Executive Village Association (HEVA) Clubhouse at BF Homes, Paranaque City, Metro Manila last December 30, 2010.
EPCALM Adult Leukemia Foundation of the Philippines, Inc. is a non-stock, non-profit organization that endeavors to help Leukemia victims through its Spiritual, Medical and Financial arms.
Click on the video below:
EPCALM conducts vigil service for Karen
EPCALM conducted a vigil service for Karen Pajarillaga last Saturday, March 12.
Karen joined our Maker last Friday, March 11, 2011, after battling Leukemia for more than a year. She was 33 years old.
During the vigil service, the EPCALM Choir led the singing of songs of worship throughout the service. Karen’s sister, Armi Aningat and her husband recounted memories of Karen up to the last moments of her life. Aling Evelyn, Karen’s Mother, gave the family’s response, in behalf of the Pajarillaga Family.
Pastor Norma Manuel gave the meditation during the service and Dr. Erlyn Demerre made the closing prayer. Karen’s body lies at the Funeraria Paz, Manila Memorial Park, Sucat, Paranaque.
Her interment will be on Wednesday, March 16, 2011.
Please pray for the eternal repose of Karen’s soul, and pray for strength and steadfastness for the family she leaves behind.
Remembering Karen
Troy Pajarillaga remembers his sister Karen by making a video about her.
Karen, a beautiful, young and vibrant lady, full of life and promise has touched the lives of others and continues to touch each of us today. May her life be an example of how we should live life each day.
Despite the pains, troubles and problems that beset her because of her leukemia, she always displayed HOPE, even up to the very last minute of her life, because GOD was with her all throughout her journey.
So should all of us. Let us not waste a second of our lives, because our time here on earth is a gift from GOD.
Click on the YouTube video below to view it.
Postscript: Karen joined our Maker last March 2011.
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